Tonight's post was inspired by a photo I saw on tumblr. that was posted by a porn blog I follow:
Okay, well with past coital escapades with the three lucky gentlemen and then seeing this photo, I was kind of irked and just felt like writing about it...So can any guy please tell me why in the hell a woman has to get completely naked to have sex, while you can still keep your jeans on?!
I mean that is one of my pet peeves when it comes to having sex. If I have to be naked, you sure as hell better be naked...or I will try to take your damn clothes off for you if you are too timid. I mean give me a break! It does not take that long for you to get off that couch/chair, take your jeans and boxers, boxer-briefs, briefs, or underwear off and put a condom on.
It really is not that hard, yet I have slept with a guy who kept his shirt on for the majority of our sex and another guy who kept his boxers on the whole time and two of his dumbass drunk friends walked in on us to be funny and guess who got the most bare view out of that? Me, because, hmmmm, when I think of having sex the majority of the time I think of being naked...
I guess I get most ticked off about it because I am putting ALL of myself out there and the guy I am having sex with is keeping his shirt or boxers on?...Fuck that. I mean sex to me is a time when two naked bodies become one. I think if you keep some of your clothes on while we are having sex that you are holding back from me, it makes me wonder, why am I having sex with you or why did I have sex with you?
I don't know...I like the naked human body and depriving me of seeing it when we are supposed to share a drunken or sober coital moment...or hours in a bed or in a car or in a pool or on a couch or on the floor really disappoints me and hurts my feelings. Seriously though, if the female is fully naked, guys ,take it from me, and just get naked!
We are just as insecure about our bodies as you are, so there is no need to hide, especially if we are at the point of vaginal or anal intercourse. Plus, for me at least, it makes sex more enjoyable when I have that total skin-to-skin contact. It's that total feeling of closure and feeling as one body in motion...I don't know if you get what I am trying to say, but having that full nudity in sex makes me feel like my partner and I are equals and we are one in that moment.
