Sex

Sex...
What do I think of when you say the word sex?
-Well, right now all I can think of is, "Let's do it!" Unfortunately it is not that easy.


Sex is both complicated and simplistic.
Sex was primarily man's way of recreating life, but over time man started to have sex for more recreational purposes...


When you say sex, I think of a man inside a woman in the missionary position; the typical way that it is portrayed, but we all know it is not just that.
Sex is between a man and a woman, a man and a man, a woman and a woman and the other types, i.e. human and animal.
Sex is oral - penis in mouth, tongue in vagina.
Sex is anal - penis in anus.
Sex is vaginal intercourse - the definition is in the name.
Sex is vagina on vagina - not really sure what the technical term for this is, but I call it scissoring.
Sex is when any type of sexual bodily fluids are exchanged, whether it be through your vagina, anus, or mouth. The penis really only excretes fluid, but it is an important feature for sex.


Did you know that a person can make themselves orgasm, just by thinking about it?! (no touching, just thinking!) 
If you think I'm crazy, I'm not, I saw it on the Discovery Channel TV Show Curiosity and it was pretty interesting. It obviously takes longer than manually touching yourself masturbation, but still, isn't it awesome that our brain really has the control over the pleasure center location of our body?!


Sex is seen in different ways in different cultures. One culture believes sex is sacred, one believes it is only for procreation, one believes it is a means of torture, one believes it is possibly the best human connection, and one believes it is scientific. 
I mean these are just a few ways sex is viewed and to be honest, when someone says, "it's just sex," it's not.


A whole lot of stuff goes into it: You and your partner rub bodies and start to feel each other up and down, clothes come of, kisses become deep, breathing becomes shallow, heart races, blood flows down towards sexual organs, (the penis swells), body starts to sweat, and then before you know it both partners have climaxed and feel ultimately one of the best sensations a human being could ever feel, an orgasm.


Sex really is a curious thing. I am always thinking about it, always wondering why I have so many thoughts and dreams about it. I always wonder about the thousands, if not millions, of positions that are possible with sex. I think about the many places sex could occur and I wonder why porns are not really what sex is depicted in my mind. 


I also think about the after effects of sex, there is always an emotional connection, there is the chance of pregnancy, there is the chance of contracting an STI, and there is the loss of one's virginity.


If you haven't noticed, I love talking about sex, watching, having, reading about sex, and this is just one of those random times I decided to write about it. Hope you enjoyed it. ;)